Piercing problem--help....?

it's alright. i kinda sorta had the same problem and had to get my ears pierced 3 times. now they're stretched, but that's another story lol. i never really took good care of my ears when i was young and they got infected a lot. the same happened to me where i looked like a pirate because i had one ear pierced and the other closed up. so i went back to where i originally got it pierced and the guy effed it up big time. so i eventually closed both holes. a couple months later i really wanted to get them pierced so i sucked it up and did it. go somewhere more professional than places in the mall because that's where i got my ears pierced and all three of them sucked.